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"Statistics reveal a high rate of virginity among US teenagers in the 21st century than earlier. Risks of unwanted pregnancies, fear of HIV infection, a stable family background and improved sex education for adolescents are the causes for this trend."This one's kind of old but it applies even more in todays society.
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Deviousness `anmari has been spreading her infectious positivity throughout our community for over 6 years. Throughout this time Ana has been at the core of all things devious, passionately developing an eclectic gallery, helping organise devmeets, participating in chat events and also recently completed dedicating her time as a Community Volunteer. We are absolutely delighted to bestow the Deviousness Award for May 2013 to `anmari, congratulations! Read More
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1. If it is a guy saying it to a girl he it is because he simply wants to get in your pants. It's as simple as that.
2. It is someone of the same sex trying to pressure you to join in their "fun". Also if you are a women hearing it form another women it is because they more then likely feel guilty about giving it up (not all the time but most of the time from what I run into). They also assume you are judging them for not waiting. This all someone else's insecurities not yours.
Trust me I have enough experience in this. I am 33 year old women who waited until she was married (2 years ago in fact) to give herself to her husband and it was worth the wait. Let me tell you why;
1. Because of my religious view (Praise God for those "rules" I see why they are set in place)
2. As a woman there is more at risk in general
3. Also as a woman sex isn't that great if the guy isn't willing to put in the effort to make sure you get the same pleasure out of it as you do. The fact is so many women have trouble reaching organism unless a guy is really conscious of what he is doing. Often times it is uncomfortable and the first time it usually hurts (really bad actually for most women no one ever really talks about it).
I don't mean to get so detailed but I really want to stress this to people especially young women. If a guy really doesn't care about you he isn't gonna care if you like it. He only cares about taking just 5-10 minutes to blow is load and that is it. You are left with not the "amazing" feeling of orgasm (which Hollywood seems to give the wrong impression) and could end up with far more consequences for his "pleasure" then he does. That is why women often feel empty, unsatisfied, and then have a baby to boot (or even worse an STD). Trust me birth control doesn't always work. I know so many of my friends over the years will tell you there kid was a birth control baby. I also know these details because of friends of mines experience and my own.